dave , the reason that post didnt appear here, is because i edited it out and rewrote it, shortly after i posted it, after rereading your previous post. im glad you now understand what i was offended by. if you had asked nicely as to what i thought you should apologize for in my first post instead of jumping me, everything afterward most likely wouldnt have been said. as ive stated i have no problem with your post other than the part you just apologized for. if thats flaming you i can live with that. i totally agree with your comment on this thread being closed. i wish you the best, whichever way you end up going forward from here. if i can be of any help, dont hesitate. brian.